ee-minology - story of a small gurl

Who DO u PiCk???

a guy who is always there or someone u really feel for?? would you rather end up with a guy who loves u more than u love him ? or wud you go for the one who makes ur heart skip a beat?

true, many ppl would naturally go for the first option the safe one.. the guy who is sweet, always there, loves you more than u love him.. but is that enough? However its natural for ppl to pick the safest choice. I however would like to pick the latter.. why? hmm not that i am a sadist who enjoys torturing myself or that i prefer not to be loved.. i do enjoy all the attention given etc etc.. but i have decided to take a step back and review the situation.

PIcking the First type :
ok true, you need not go through the hard heart stopping, uncertainty part of pre-dating. You already know wut is coming your way, u know he likes u, u even know ur answer, u have time to plan ur answers. U finally accept, u're ok.. you feel fine generally, its nice to have someone fuss over u, someone who is always there, adores you more than anything.. but is that satisfying for yourself? You start to notice little little things about the person that somewhat annoys you,.. you ask urself is this the right choice.. ya it mite seem cuz he's the best catch.. he's nice etc etc.. but is that all?

Picking the 2Nd type :
For me its very important to pick someone who makes my heart skips a beat.. i know many would tell me that its nonsense, non practical and superficial. Chemistry however plays an important role, i need the spark the feeling b4 you really start dating, the increase in heart rate, the nonsensical things you say or do, u try to impress and u wake up hoping and praying the other will feel the same. and when u finally get the person, u will feel a burst of happiness that surges through your veins and all you wanna do is shout out to the world! the little simple things that he does sends you to the moon, throws u over the stars and makes you sleep soundly like a baby through the night.. Even the hardest long distance relationship does not seem like a problem. The sound of his voice is absolute music to your ears. I tend not to mind going the extra mile for this special person, cook, knit, travel, impress.. but when things go wrong.. or u have an unhappie moment, u can look back at the beginning and think of the beautiful moments and rmb, you picked this person.. and the next step is still yours somehow.. u can either tell urself its ur choice and stick to it.. or.. kick urself silly for u can't blame anyone, YOU MaDe the choice...

these are just my views.. u need not agree with me.. anyhow life is not a bed of roses, fairy tales can still exist if u persue it.. non-believer of romantic movies and fairy tales i might be.. but undeniably i am still waiting for my very own fairy tale ending......

posted by eemin @ 4:53 PM